How stressful is school?
Veri veri stressful... almost feel like giving up.
But thinking back, it has been a veri long struggle...
Wanna see the studying environment I am going through every single day?
Here are some sneak previews...
Boring RITE????!!! I AM REALLY VERI BORED!
I need to DESTRESS!!!! How??!!!
"Why can't humans be satisfied... is this part of human nature?
This is one vicious cycle that is never-ending."
How do we normally get hurt in a relationship?
When we start loving and giving too much in a love that we believe will last forever, however, when it ends, it hurts deeply knowing that all that you have done comes to naught.
But why do we still expose ourselves to such predicament?
Could it be due to the reason that we set too high a standard for our life partner?
.... Must be pretty, handsome, clever, rich, nice bods, cute, and the list goes on....
Loving someone is easy, getting over a lost love is never that easy.
However, finding someone who loves you deeply is never easy, but giving up on that person is much easier.
How do you balance this equation?
How much should you love, and how much are you willing to sacrifice?
When it comes to matters of the heart, it is beyond measurement and comprehension.
Cute and pretty gals will have flocks of guys waiting in line for them to choose from,
this bunch of guys are already exposing themselves to the most excruciating pain known to the heart.
But why do they still do it?
Who are they to blame when they finally get rejected...
Well, at least they are courageous enough to love.
How do gals get hurt then?
This is where the vicious cycle starts.
Guys have no idea how fortunate they are to have gals who are willing to give so much.
The hope of being loved and cared upon by the "man in their life".
The tendency of a guy being unfaithful is so high that most gals just give up on "man".
Why can't we be satisfied?
Finding someone whom you love so much is not easy...
Why do we choose always to live with regret when we finally lose the person that we love?
Guys out there... Cherish the ones that you love.
Simple analogy.... Think abt it....
Guys think in a very practical and logical manner when it comes to work and affairs of the heart.
"I do not have feelings for you anymore, let's just break up."
I think guys are becoming more and more "bochap" liao... sigh...
Gals? They think with their heart.
When u reject a gal, it will take them a very long long time to recover from the hurt.
Good gals are rare to come upon...
Pls dun make them extinct...
Yo, this goes out to all my buddies that might be reading this... EMO rite?
Dun flame mi hor...
"There is always greener pastures on the other side of the field, but can you find it and will it be forever? If you leave the pastures that you are currently on, it will die. Do not take for granted that there will be another available to you."
A sudden thought of selflessness...
Or rather a sense of helplessness...
Would I feel hurt?
Will things be alright?
One thing is for sure, there will be no distractions.
Friendship....
Courtship...
Love...
A simple process leading to complete happiness.
Hold my thoughts and my feelings...
Keep it to myself...
Result: No burden and worries for the one you love.
When all the pieces finally fall into place,
Both shall reap the rewards.
With patience and determination,
I believe in sacrifice.
To see things way far ahead,
In hope of future happiness...
This is a reminder for me to focus on what is important for the future.
Without career, you have no security.
Without security, you have no family.
Work hard for yourself and not for others...
As quoted by a friend
"If you dun work hard and look after yourself,
How will you be able to look after the one you love..."
Stress = Pressure
Sacrifice = Love
Love = Happiness
Which category do you fall in, which will you rather have in a relationship?
To love someone OR to be loved by one...
What is the use of loving someone if she does not love you back...
What is the use of being loved by one but you dun love her at all...
Love is not something that can be developed and find overnight.
It is not something that can be written and spoken in words.
Love is how the heart feels...
It does not necessary be happiness,
Love hurts sometimes.
"Only when your heart have been hurt,
Then you will know that you have fallen in love."
Love is a wonderful feeling...
"Though filled with obstacles, it is the overcoming of these obstacles that make love much more worth cherishing. "
The scenerio for my valentine's day plans have been properly planned and ready for execution...
How did it go???
Not as planned... But I ain't complaining...
Reason...? She had a bad headache that day...
The first thought that went thru my mind was whether she was alright and I was veri veri worried for her health rather than disappointed that my plans and surprise that I have prepared for her will go to waste.
Gosh... I think I love her more than I ever expected myself to love any other girls in my life. I would rather she rest well at home coz of her busy schedule that will make her even more tired if she had insufficient rest. So, I took the gifts that I have prepared and left it at her doorstep.
Though things have not gone as planned, I was actually happy and honoured that I was given a "yes" answer to spend time with her on Valentine's Day(well, better than getting rejected when I ask her out for a date on this day).
The plan was supposed to be as followed:
