Saturday, March 8, 2008

Analog of pain

"Why can't humans be satisfied... is this part of human nature?
This is one vicious cycle that is never-ending."

How do we normally get hurt in a relationship?
When we start loving and giving too much in a love that we believe will last forever, however, when it ends, it hurts deeply knowing that all that you have done comes to naught.

But why do we still expose ourselves to such predicament?
Could it be due to the reason that we set too high a standard for our life partner?
.... Must be pretty, handsome, clever, rich, nice bods, cute, and the list goes on....

Loving someone is easy, getting over a lost love is never that easy.
However, finding someone who loves you deeply is never easy, but giving up on that person is much easier.

How do you balance this equation?
How much should you love, and how much are you willing to sacrifice?
When it comes to matters of the heart, it is beyond measurement and comprehension.

Cute and pretty gals will have flocks of guys waiting in line for them to choose from,
this bunch of guys are already exposing themselves to the most excruciating pain known to the heart.
But why do they still do it?
Who are they to blame when they finally get rejected...
Well, at least they are courageous enough to love.

How do gals get hurt then?
This is where the vicious cycle starts.

Guys have no idea how fortunate they are to have gals who are willing to give so much.
The hope of being loved and cared upon by the "man in their life".
The tendency of a guy being unfaithful is so high that most gals just give up on "man".
Why can't we be satisfied?
Finding someone whom you love so much is not easy...
Why do we choose always to live with regret when we finally lose the person that we love?

Guys out there... Cherish the ones that you love.

Simple analogy.... Think abt it....
Guys think in a very practical and logical manner when it comes to work and affairs of the heart.
"I do not have feelings for you anymore, let's just break up."
I think guys are becoming more and more "bochap" liao... sigh...

Gals? They think with their heart.
When u reject a gal, it will take them a very long long time to recover from the hurt.
Good gals are rare to come upon...
Pls dun make them extinct...

Yo, this goes out to all my buddies that might be reading this... EMO rite?
Dun flame mi hor...

"There is always greener pastures on the other side of the field, but can you find it and will it be forever? If you leave the pastures that you are currently on, it will die. Do not take for granted that there will be another available to you."